5 Crippling Beliefs That Keep Consultants And Coaches In The Poor House


Ian Brodie

Ian Brodie

Ian Brodie teaches consultants, coaches and other professionals to attract and win their ideal clients by becoming seen as authorities in their field.


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5 Crippling Beliefs That Keep Consultants And Coaches In The Poor House

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There's a myth often perpetrated in the media that consultants and coaches earn easy money doling out simplistic advice while hard-working salaried employees get on with the “real work”.

In my experience, the truth is very different. Most independent consultants and coaches work long hours, dedicated to helping their clients. They're still there plugging away long after the “hard-working employees” have gone home.

Yet most earn less than they did in the corporate world. And many struggle to survive.

It's not for want of talent or hard work.

Most usually it's because they're not good at marketing and selling their services.

And often, that stems from “crippling beliefs” they have about marketing and sales that undermine their attempts to get new clients.

In my time I've seen 5 particularly damaging beliefs that are commonly held by consultants, coaches and other professionals. Beliefs you must eradicate if you want to succeed at winning clients.

Crippling Belief #1: “If I do good work, people will hear about me”.

Painful truth: no they won't.

Sadly, good news doesn't travel. When researchers TARP looked at word of mouth, they found that if you have a bad experience with a business then on average you'll tell 12 people, and those 12 people will tell 6 others each. You've probably heard this or a similar statistic before.

However, a much less reported finding is that they also found that if you have a good experience with a business then on average you'll tell just a couple of friends. And those friends won't remember much, and won't tell anyone else at all.

And the problem with relying on word of mouth is that as most people practice it, it's a passive strategy. You're reliant on the goodwill of others to generate leads for you.

If you want more clients? Well, you just have to hope you get more recommendations.

So while word of mouth is great – relying on it alone is a sure road to the poor house.

Crippling Belief #2: “I just need to get my name out there”.

Painful truth: it won't make any difference.

Having your name out there more, having more people know about you, just means you're adding more noise to the constant barrage of promotional messages we all face every day.

“Getting your name out there” causes consultants and coaches to pay for advertising, send out meaningless flyers, and hire SEO companies to generate traffic to dead-end websites.

Unless you have a message that resonates with potential clients and that sets you apart from the myriad of others clamouring for attention then getting your name out there is pointless.

Crippling Belief #3: “I can copy what others are succeeding with”.

Painful truth: it might be working for them, that doesn't mean it will work for you.

These days we're overwhelmed with opportunities and information. Every day we see others “crushing it” with webinars, events, product launches, direct mail, networking, social media…

It's incredibly easy to become distracted – to try copy all the things other people (who always seem somehow less talented than us, but more succesfull) are doing.

But if we do this we'll hop from strategy to strategy. Always following the latest technique we've heard about and never mastering any of them.

And worse still, just because networking or social media or direct mail worked for one of your competitors or someone you saw speaking at an event doesn't mean it will work for you. Your clients are different. Your skills are different.

You have to tread your own path. Learn from others, but find the things that work for you. Then focus on them and become a master at them.

Crippling Belief #4: “I can't find the time for marketing”.

Painful truth: if you don't market, you'll soon have plenty of time on your hands.

Not having the time for marketing sounds ludicrous when you say it – but I hear it or something similar again and again.

You don't find the time for marketing – you make the time.

I advise most small firms and solo professionals that they should be spending between 10 – 20% of their time on marketing and business development. More in the early stages of their business.

If you can't make that time, then you've either got your priorities wrong, or (if you need to be billing for 80%+ of the time to make ends meet) you've got your economic model seriously wrong.

More usually, the problem is that people avoid marketing because they don't feel competent or comfortable with it, and unlike the area where they're an expert, it holds out the terrible potential for failure and rejection.

If you want to be successful you've got to get over this, and you've got to get over yourself. You've got to knuckle down, book the time, and get your marketing done.

Crippling Belief #5: “I'm not a (natural) salesperson”.

Painful truth: almost no one is a natural salesperson. It doesn't stop them, and it shouldn't stop you.

For some reason, many of us seem to have acquired this belief that “natural salespeople” kind of pop out of the womb that way. So we look at people who are good at selling and we assume we could never be like that and feel overwhelmed.

But the truth is that when we look at people who are good at selling, we're seeing the finished article. The product of years of experience and training. They didn't start off that way.

Sure, there are some skills like listening, empathising, making friends and being sociable that some people seem to be naturally good at or pick up at an early age. But those are perfectly learnable skills for us too. Along with the more structured skills involved in selling.

And we don't need to have perfected our skills to still have success with them. Most people see significant improvements in their success rate winning clients just by learning and following a simple, structured sales process.


Ian Brodie

Ian Brodie

Ian Brodie teaches consultants, coaches and other professionals to attract and win their ideal clients by becoming seen as authorities in their field.

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    AUTHOR Stefan

    Posted on 4:23 pm April 29, 2012.

    Hi Ian

    I wholeheartedly agree with all you say here, I also see it so often with the businesses I work with (it isn’t just consultants).

    The only one belief I have a slight hesitation with is the one about getting your name out there. As the interview we did toghter evidences there are a few rare occasions where this does work .. but I have to agree for most people getting their name out there isn’t going to work. In my own case it works .. but only when integrated with a lot of other marketing channels.

    If people want to learn more about getting their name out there … in my case it means being plastered across the media on severtal continents, including radio with several million people hearing a number of interviews … they should listen to the interview we did together.

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    AUTHOR Ian

    Posted on 10:55 pm May 9, 2012.

    Hi Stefan – yes there’s a difference between the “getting your name out there” that most people do – which is just name recognition on a small scale – and the sort you do which is getting recognised as an expert on a wide scale.


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    AUTHOR Stephen Lahey

    Posted on 4:18 pm September 8, 2013.

    Love this wise, honest advice, Ian. #3 is especially tricky. Sure, the fundamentals need to be in place, but we have to experiment to find what can work best for us.

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    AUTHOR George_Hathaway21

    Posted on 4:22 pm November 18, 2013.

    I agree with all you say, and especially with Steve’s comment about #3. Ask any successful photographer or artist. To be successful, your product or service has to be unique, not just better. In my 40+ years of sales and consulting experience, you have to “differentiate yourself differently…”

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    AUTHOR Martin Tague

    Posted on 5:19 pm January 2, 2014.

    Hi Ian, Great blog post….. I will take this advice into the New Year with me…You are right though without effective marketing businesses die or struggle to succeed. I do gain alot of my work through recommendations but also balance this with targetted marketing and not a scattergun approach – I do however need to try and maintain the 10-20% a week marketing and networking without getting stuck in the daily grind!

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    AUTHOR Julie Crowley

    Posted on 12:28 pm May 18, 2014.

    Great post and so true! I am working on the sales mindset now, do the marketing regularly but may need the resonating message clearer, and have realised the first one (after a long time) too. Thanks for the motivation to keep working on all of this and reiterating it! Your tips and insights are great and helpful.

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    AUTHOR Jimmy Reid

    Posted on 8:35 am June 8, 2015.

    Agree and think all of the points are pretty valid. I started a new business about 4 years ago and spent a lot of time in the selling “mode” without a great deal of success in spite of the fact that I have been in selling most of my business life. I am now focusing and making time for marketing my business and am really just trying to find which is the most effective and what will work for me.

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    AUTHOR Tony

    Posted on 5:58 pm January 11, 2016.

    Ian spot on…nailed it in the very first para. Not only the media but customers and potential customers in the main have the same view. It doesn’t matter what the truth is as there is only one truth and that is perception. It’s the media painting perception of consultants getting money for old rope so to speak and it is a generalism that tars the whole industry with the same brush. As we all know the reality (except for the big consultancy companies out there) is quite different.

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